Who among us does not like to feel validated or special? It is a powerful vibe that you get from people with an inspiring spirit. Today I am thankful for uplifting and kind people. After meeting with a couple of special ladies this morning I felt renewed and encouraged. What I realized is that these women are "Dream Spotters." I can always count on them to remind me of my strengths and keep me grounded at the same time.
Everyone needs people like this in their lives. On the other hand, I was at a recent event and came across a "Dream Smasher." This lady was being so negative and mean-spirited that I literally felt I needed to shower to get the negative vibe off of me. Intuitively we feel the difference in a person’s intention. So, if you want more positive in your life and less negative, consider the vibe that you give off to others. Ask yourself these five basic questions:
1. Who have I encouraged or made feel special today?
2. Did I criticize or run down anyone today?
3. Who in my life makes me want to be a better person, just by spending time with them?
4. Who in my life leaves me feeling beat down and discouraged after spending time around them?
5. What can I do to make a positive difference in life of someone else?
These are important questions and ones that will affect whether you draw people to you or repel people from you. Become a dream spotter for others and thank the ones you have in your life!
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